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At times, it can feel as though life is a zero-sum game. We may be led to believe--whether directly or indirectly--that we must compete for life’s finite resources. Judaism, however, teaches us something very different. 

One of the most beautiful and instructive things about candles is that they can spread the flame to other candles without diminishing their own light. During this Festival of Lights, when the days are the darkest of the year, could this be a lesson for us as well? There are many gifts that we can offer --joy, compassion, generosity, forgiveness, and blessings--that do not diminish our own reserves. In fact, they multiply, enriching both the giver and the recipient. 

In one of Judaism’s simplest, yet most profound teachings, the Mishnah asks, “Who is rich?” The answer is “The one who is happy with their own lot.”

I pray that we can keep these teachings close to our hearts on these upcoming days of Chanukah and beyond: To cultivate a sense of gratitude for what we have. To share some of the above-mentioned, limitless resources with others. To add light and love to this world.

And yet, even as we rejoice in the holiday and enjoy our time with family and friends, we must not forget that 100 of our brothers and sisters are still being held underground in torturous conditions in Gaza. 447 days have passed. 

Please join me and countless others in a small initiative sponsored by the Hostages and Missing Families Forum, as we light an additional Chanukah candle for the return of the hostages. If possible, light a separate candle, next to your Chanukiyah, each of the 8 nights. Consider thinking about one specific hostage, say his or her name, and send them a blessing. 

Matan Zangauker just turned 25 last week, marking his second birthday in cruel captivity. Ariel Bibas has turned 5 in captivity, along with his 1-year-old brother, Kfir. Keith Siegel, 64, whose heartbroken brother I met last November in Israel, is an American citizen. Just four names, four beautiful souls and stories, among ninety-six others.

Keep them in mind. Let us not forget their names. Together we can help banish the darkness and bring back the light to this world. 

For our brothers and sisters, the entire House of Israel, who are in distress and captivity, whether on sea or on land, may God have compassion on them, and bring them from distress to relief, from darkness to light, from servitude to redemption, at this moment, speedily, very soon; and let us say Amen.

Wishing you and all Am Yisrael a joyful and meaningful Chanukah, and a Shabbat Shalom.